Tuesday, November 5, 2013

250 km later......

Woo hoo - what a fun weekend was had by us up in Auckland, at Team Sam headquarters and the Auckland Marathon! Family arrived from all around NZ and Australia to take part in the event that has taken a lot of their time and sweat and energy this year - to complete either the half or full marathon, running for Kids Foundation, the charity that has supported us since Sam arrived to change our lives forever!

Tonight all smelly sneakers and proudly worn running bibs have boarded planes and are back in their original locales - tis a tad quiet here now and the girls were rather sad to say goodbye to everyone. With so many Aunties and Uncles around, it was rather funny on the last night when Sam turned to Francis and said, 'Uncle Dad!'.

8 of us ran, but the support crew was just as vital, with Francis sorting meals and keeping the home running and sorting out Sam.  Kylie was photographer and support crew co-ordinator, as she hung out with the girls from 5am on the big day, waiting for us all to get over the finish line.

I am so proud of everyone - Eleanor was a legend and ran her first full marathon on a months training (she did some other things too, but 'what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas!'); Elaine and Janice also ran  their first full marathons - both with great times and on top of being busy full time Mums - legend!  Jude did an amazing time, again on very little training...and at her age!  (I have so much power as writer and editor of my own blog!).  Jason & Raewyn did P.B's - using running jargon/acronyms means they are becoming serious athletes; Selwyn looked hot in his new running shoes and inspite of waiting around a bit for the slowest in the pack (that would be me!), he hit the 2 hour mark!  And then there comes 'slow and steady' with the worst time of all but someone has to come last!..... but I am just glad to complete it as a month ago I was going to pull out due to injury.

After the race several of us talked about how at times we were going to give up, but as the pain set in we thought of the pain that kids like Sam endure and we kept going.

This blog is/was created to share info on Sam, but my brother Peter has inspired me so many times along the way, as he has faced chronic debilitating health issues over the past years.  It has been a tough month for him, Jude and the kids, so although Sam was the catalyst for the run, we also ran for P.A.C. Man - our eldest brother who has his own huge challenges to face at the moment in Dunedin hospital.  It was a great time to be together, fun meals shared and hours of talking and laughing, but also many moments of reflection and tears as we thought of our brother struggling in hospital at the moment.

Kylie (sis'n'law) shared about a family that had a child with health issues and their perspective and it really touched me, so I'm going to paraphrase and use below as it rang true with me:

When we were pregnant with Sam and the obstetrician was talking of termination, they only kept telling us of the hardships we would face, the stress and heartache.  They never said, 'imagine how much joy your little boy will bring your whole extended family as he faces his challenges with courage', 'imagine how much patience and kindness you will have to learn as you care for him....and how that will have a positive impact on your parenting of all your kids,' 'imagine all the kindness and generosity you will receive from total strangers and people that are watching you, 'you need to consider how you will be challenged to do things you would never have contemplated before his arrival' etc etc etc....

I doubt that our family would have been together running as a united team if it hadn't been for the gift of Sam. I hope that as I continue to grow up I will not be scared of challenges or surprises, but be able to trust that God has a purpose for allowing it..... I know without a doubt that that has always been the case.

So with a full heart and tired limbs, I'm off to bed.  Thanks to you all that have supported this run - online and postal donations is up to a total of $3300 - that is truly amazing, and we are so very very humbled and grateful.  I leave you with some photos of the run - pre run feasting, getting Sam ready for his 'feast', Support Crew and Team Sam!
Kai Time

Hooking up

Great Support Crew!

We did it!

X Shirley


3 comments:

Elaine said...

Such a fun weekend! Thanks Shirley, I will be back next year...for the half, not the full though!

The Dockers said...

Loud and proud Shirl, loud and proud. xxx

Anonymous said...

You are the most amazing bunch - and loved what you wrote about what the medics never said about how Sam would impact your lives, your family and your friends.
Heaps of love, Crawfords in UK